The stem on my current bike has always been too long. Its time I sorted it. Problem is its a 1 1/8 steerer and a 26mm clamp, which seemingly are not so popular and hard to find. I have found a few but they are 80mm. Currently I have a 110mm and was thinking of a 90mm. I have heard going to short causes handling issues.
Handling needs to be considered as part of a “system”, I prefer the handlng with a shorter stem, but on a very nervous frame, a short stem could make a bike even more twitchy.